Why Massage Wand Vibrators Are A Great Couples' Toy

on Mar 15, 2018

Massage wands offer a whole nother realm of stimulation. Why not share that loving touch with your boo?

Why a Massage Wand Vibrator?

They don’t call them 'magic' wands for nothing!

These toys take bumping beautifuls to a whole new level! Massage wands are super-versatile, making them perfect for all sorts of couples play - from romantic massage right through to kinky fetish (and everything in between).

A dildo imitating a whopping veiny cock isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, so massage wands make an ideal introductory bedroom accessory. Plus, with a couple of extra attachments, a wand can offer you the satisfaction of several toys in one neat little package.

Explore a whole world of pleasure without having to turn your bedside table into an X-rated toolkit... not that there’s anything wrong with that!

How to Use a Wand for Couples Play

There are a million and one ways to use a wand, so here are a few of our favourite ways you can use this kinky toy to spice things up with your playmate.

1. Massage
Starting with light vibrations and working your way up the intensity settings, stroke the wand over your lover’s shoulders, thighs, booty, and calves to help relieve aches and pains, and get them loosened up and in the mood for a bit of hanky panky.

Top tip: Slather your boo in massage lotion to get that wand slipping and sliding all over their love humps.
2. External

Turn it up a notch and use the wand to deliver powerful vibrations to external hotspots, paying special attention to the areas around the manhood and lady button.

Top tip: Toys were designed to make your life easier, not send your hands numb before you even get a chance to blow your load. Make your toy more ergonomic with these handy attachments:

-Wand Essentials Flutter Tip Massage Wand Attachment

-Lovehoney Hummer Deluxe Male Masturbator Wand Attachment
3. Internal

Blow your beau’s mind with an attachment that takes your massage wand from an external stimulator to an internal toy.

Top tip: Looking for something that targets the G-spot AND P-spot? Try:

-Lovehoney G-Spot Pleaser Massage Wand Attachment
4. During Sex

For people with clits, massage your G-spot externally by pressing the head of your wand against your stomach, just below your navel. If you’ve got a joystick on your hands, stimulate your P-spot externally by pressing the head of the wand against your perineum.

Which Wand Is Right for You?

As Ollivander would say, there’s a wand out there for everyone - but before you take the leap there are a few things you should consider.

How Big?

As the saying goes, “It’s not about the size, but how you use it”. Wands come in a range of sizes, from pocket-sized up to 14 inches in length. Generally speaking, the larger the wand, the more powerful it is, but the little guys offer more versatility.
Power Type

Depending on your wand, it may be battery-powered, rechargeable or mains operated, so take a minute to think about where you usually spend your sexy time. Is there a power socket close by, or do you need something cordless for a bit of afternoon delight?
Budget

Wands vary in price, so whether you’re after something bougie or you’re on a budget, Lovehoney has a range starting from $30 up to $300.

What Do You Wand?

What feature are you after when it comes to the perfect wand? Here are some of our top picks when it comes to versatility, price, and power that will still end in ecstatic bliss.

I Wand Freedom

Cordless, USB rechargeable, and hosting seven vibrating modes, this massager offers truly versatile play that’ll have you wanding more.
I Wand Power

Go hard or go home. Plugging straight into the wall, this baby never loses power and the deep, rumbly vibrations will have you seeing fireworks in no time.
I Wand Low Cost

Bigger isn’t necessarily better. Cheaper than a round at the pub, this lil’ guy is a great upgrade from your bullet vibe. Slip it into your handbag and take it with you for a bit of cheeky play with your flame on the go.