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Best Sex Toys for Same-Sex Couples
on Dec 6, 2021
We have the best sex toys for same-sex couples. Check out these great same-sex toy ideas to get your sex life flying high.
Are you same-sex attracted?
Do we need to tell you there’s an ocean of articles about sex toys for straight couples? So, if you’re in a lesbian, gay or other non-hetero relationship, bad luck, baby?
No way. Lovehoney is all about sexual happiness, whoever you are. We’re here to help you find the best of the best sex toys for vulva-vulva couples and penis-penis couples.
How’d we choose the best? We scoured all our customer reviews, asked our community members on the forums and spoke to sexperts.
So, stand back and admire the best sex toys for same-sex couples - then dig in for a feast.
Top 6 Toys for Female-Female Couples
1. Lovehoney Silencer Whisper Quiet Classic Vibrator 7 Inch
Over 900 reviews, giving this purple, wavy vibe a 4.5-star ranking. Strong enough to send intense stimulation to both you and your lover. OMG, welcome to the O-train, sister.
Highlights:
- Powerful vibe with 7 inches to please
- Multiple vibration speeds
- Fully waterproof for shower and bath play
Ideal for:
- Accessorising foreplay
- Fans of non-realistic toys
- If you house share
What they say:
"Size makes it easy to work together as a couple, and you can use it in all positions. Really wide head that is easy to get in the right spot. Because it's ribbed it is easy to hold if not using it for penetration."
2. Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with Dildo
If you love strap-ons, this rig will set you and yours on many erotic adventures. It’s all adjustable straps let you customise the fit and the 7-inch dildo is like a G-spot seeking missile that delivers pleasure in spades.
Highlights:
- Cums with bullet vibrator pocket for more pleasure
- 3 interchangeable O-ring sizes to change up dildos
- Sleek silicone dildo with G-spot curve
Ideal for:
- Advancing your strap-on play
- Switching a variety of dildo sizes
- Comes in a wide range of UK dress sizes, from 10 - 32
What they say:
"My girlfriend and I love this strap-on. It stays firmly in place and comes with 3 different-sized O-rings in case you want to change up the size of the dildo. The harness is quick and easy to slip on and the dildo holds its place nicely."
3. Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Double-Ended Dildo 12 Inch
This flexible monster can tango with twin vajingos at once, or use the two-headed beast for anal play. Bend it to your will or try tackling all 12 inches at once. Couples love the joy this toy delivers through its clear jelly dildo delights and teasing textures.
Highlights:
- Textured shaft enhances stimulation
- Rounded heads for easy insertion
- Flexible yet firm
Ideal for:
- Double penetration play
- Fans of realistic toys if you like see-thru blue wangs
- Great for couple and solo play
What they say:
"I loved how it felt inside and loved how excited it made my partner while using this on me. It's big enough to use for anal as well but also good for gripping and thrusting. I've had some epic orgasms using this both with a partner and alone!"
4. Desire Luxury Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator
Voted 'The World's Best Vibrator' by Good Housekeeping Magazine, this velvet bean machine delivers wave after wave of sensual bliss. Great for couple edging play. Perfect for foreplay, solo or couple adventures.
Highlights:
- Designed for female pleasure
- 8 modes of vibration, each with 12 custom speeds of intensity - wow
- Enjoy easy USB recharging
Ideal for:
- Super-intense foreplay
- Holidays or weekends away
- One-hand operation frees other hands for additional pleasuring
What they say:
"Perfect go-to vibrator! Lots of different settings and speeds to play with to get and keep you going. Lovely and comfy to hold and easy to use. Much more powerful than I expected it to be on the higher settings, which is fab! Really easy to recharge and has a lovely discreet bag to charge in and carry as well. Don’t hesitate to buy!"
5. Lovehoney Supreme Sensation Pussy Pump
Just like a penis pump draws blood into the organ, this pussy pump will arouse your lips and make your Mappa Tassie eager for action. Great for getting your partner primed for the dance of the two-headed beast, and plumped for erotic arousal with ease.
Highlights:
- Chamber encases all your lady garden for all-over suction
- Transparent cup to see your lady bits being stimulated
- Easy-to-use pump
Ideal for:
- Enhancing sensitivity and plumpness
- Using before a sex toy for heightened sensations
- Instant arousal
What they say:
“After only 5 or 6 pumps you could see changes happening already. OH said it felt weird but good. The area certainly had changed and looked swollen and very inviting. Once off, the lips stayed puffy and sensitive - so much so that she came through oral within about 10-15 seconds (a new record for me). Sex afterwards was great too.”
6. Lovehoney Perfect Pair Silicone Nipple Suckers
Treat your love buttons with these delightful suckers and feel the oxytocin flooding your bod. A great toy to increase sensitivity in the nips using gentle suction while you go to town downstairs with your lucky lesbian.
Highlights:
- Stylish, velvety-soft black silicone nipple suckers
- Does the nip stim job without your tongue or fingers needed
- Flexible design allows use over a nearby clitoris
Ideal for:
- Increasing blood flow and sensitivity
- Beginner’s nipple toys
- Is just as good for clits as nips
What they say:
"They have great suction on them and are easy to work. If you add a little lube to them they hold a bit tighter, which is phenomenal. These are now a go-to bedside the bed and we have since got the nipple clamps."
Top 6 Toys for Male-Male Couples
1. Lovehoney Magic 8 Stretchy Silicone Cock and Ball Ring
Check out the Magic 8 Cock and Ball Ring. Very smooth and comfy around the family jewels, with a nice and tight fit that helps some blokes with longer-lasting erections and intensified orgasms.
Highlights:
- Stretchy double cock ring
- Made from hypoallergenic silicone for comfort
- Wraps around both your meat and veg
Ideal for:
- Helping to enhance performance during play and sex
- Extended pleasure sessions
- Both beginners and advanced cock ring users
What they say:
"It looks good when on and feels good too. Keeps me nice and hard throughout and doesn't inhibit my cumming as some very tight rings do."
2. Lovehoney Reversible Double Stroker Intense Ticklers
Amazing sensations from this see-thru tickler. Double the fun of a Fleshlight, with reversible inner sleeve - supple fronds lining one side and lifelike ridges the other. Both sides feel incredible.
Highlights:
- Two thrilling textures for twice the value
- Closed end for variable suction intensity
- Snug yet comfy fit
Ideal for:
- Enhancing foreplay with visual thrills
- Introducing exciting textures to your shared play
- For solo or couples play
What they say:
"It gave a wank so intense that my partner totally lost control! A definite must-have for couples that play together or a guy who wants to spice up a boring Sunday afternoon!"
3. Lovehoney Bumper Booty Bundle Anal Sex Toy Kit (6 Piece)
Get a load of this bumper bundle of quality anal toys. Perfect gear for the anal newbie. It’s great value for money and a great couple’s kit. Kit includes butt plugs, anal beads, a prostate toy and more goodies.
Highlights:
- Two butt plugs, anal beads, a prostate massage, anal douche and bullet vibe
- All toys feature flared bases for safe use
- Half the price of buying products separately
Ideal for:
- Great for beginners to anal play
- Couples can enjoy shared exploration and new sensations
- Vibe adds versatility
What they say:
"Me and my partner had plenty of fun with these. We used the toys with and without the bullet, on different settings, and it got us where we wanted to be. Very good sensations, vibrations and feel."
4. Lovehoney Discover Water-Based Anal Lubricant 100ml
Lube makes everything better. This thick anal lube provides long-lasting slipperiness and comfort during anal play and sex. Great for safe and pleasurable anal adventures. Use on your lonesome or with your bonk buddy.
Highlights:
- Healthy - free from parabens and glycerine
- Slick formula with no odour
- Compatible with all sex toys as well as latex condoms
Ideal for:
- Making anal more comfortable and slippery
- Holiday luggage - it's the perfect 100ml size
- Long-lasting, mess-free sex play
What they say:
"This lube completely changed anal sex for me and my BF and has greatly improved our sex life. It may be a small bottle, but it goes a long way and lasts forever."
5. Lovehoney Oh! Silky Bondage Restraints
If you’ve never tried a spot of bondage, these beaut ties keep things simple and add excitement to sensual restraint play. They effectively restrain your partner and leave you in control of what could be a most memorable sesh.
Highlights:
- Easy-peasy to-use
- 49.5-inch length great for many pozzies
- Non-intimidating, silky design
Ideal for:
- Adding to your excitement and role play
- Use for wrists or ankles
- Simple design great for bondage beginners
What they say:
"Whipped them out at the right moment, much to my partner's delight, and a wild night ensued. The material is soft and feels nice against your skin with just the correct amount of bite when you pull against them."
6. Lovehoney Body Rocker Remote Control P-Spot Vibrator
Ready for some P-spot fun? This vibrating prostate massager will rock you all night long. Your beau can remote control the vibe and tease your prostate until you can’t hold on any longer.
Highlights:
- Contoured silicone shaft to massage P-spots
- 10 x vibration modes, 6 x intensity levels to customise your fun
- Remote controller for ease of use
Ideal for:
- Handing the remote to your kinky companion to take control
- Mixing it up with the huge array of vibration settings
- Playing underwater
What they say:
"I've had some favourable experiences with other prostate vibrators in the past, but this one felt much easier and enjoyable, delivering a far more intense session with its sensational range options, bringing some high-tech customisation to your orgasm."
