Nina

Sex is a wondrous thing; like a magnificent night sky. Full of beauty, infinite possibilities and the... what the heck is that?

We've all been there. On the road to Pleasure, via Puzzled with a pit stop in Preoccupied.

Focusing on being relaxed and what is turning you on in the moment is key to satisfying sex.

By practising being more present in each moment of daily life, you'll find it a lot easier to be in the moment during your lovemaking.

With everything that's going on in our busy lives, it's understandable though that sometimes our minds take a detour.

Don't fret about it.

Read on for a list of things that everyone has thought of during sex.

Have you ever thought about writing your own erotic stories? Or maybe memoirs? Then you're not alone.

Lots of people feel awkward about sharing their writing – understandably so, if you've ever read a comment section anywhere on the internet.

It's scary to put yourself out there. But it can also be a huge turn-on, and ultimately rewarding.

Even if your audience is just yourself and a lover, erotic writing is a great way to explore fantasies. Writing can relieve stress, and when you're doing it for fun, it can be a welcome break from academic assignments.

If you've ever thought about putting pen to paper, or fingers to keyboard as it's now more often known (though it does sound slightly less romantic), here are some small steps to get you started.