The Best Sex Positions for Pegging

Whether you know it as pegging or strap-on sex, it turns out that there’s a slight difference between these two types of anal action, and it all comes down to who’s doing the deed.

Strap-on sex involves a person of any gender penetrating a vulva owner with a strap-on dildo, whereas pegging in sex refers to when a person with a vagina anally penetrates a penis owner with a strap-on.

However you see it, anal pegging is a fantastic way to experiment with different power dynamics and role reversal. Plus, pegging is one of the best ways to target the prostate, or P-spot, for people with penises. Hitting the hidden walnut can not only lead to more intense peaks, but it can also result in multiple climaxes and blended finales when you throw in a rub and tug too.

But if you’re not used to wielding a willy, it can be a bit tricky to think of some exciting new positions to try. Whether you’re new to pegging and looking for some beginner-friendly options or you’re keen to progress your play with some challenging new possies, we’ve put together a compilation of the best pegging positions.

But before you get into it, make sure to lube up with plenty of the slippery stuff before you do the deed with your newfound D. If you plan on hitting the backdoor, you’ll want to make sure you use a specialty anal lube so you’ve got plenty of cushion for the pushin’.

How: The receiving partner positions themselves in a table-top position on their hands and knees while the penetrating partner kneels in between the receiving partner’s legs to enter from behind. The penetrating partner can hold onto the receiving partner’s hips for extra support and to help set the pace.

Take it to the next level with… a side of good vibes. Whether you choose a vibrating strap-on, vibrating cock ring or wearable couple’s vibe, there are plenty of ways to get your buzz on while you bone.

How: The penetrating partner seats themselves on the ground or a broad, stable surface and reclines back slightly with their arms stretched out for support behind them. Alternatively, you may want to prop yourself up against a wall so your hands are free to wander. The penetrating partner’s legs are stretched out in front of them with their knees slightly raised and spread apart. With their back to the penetrating partner, the receiving partner lowers themselves down onto their playmate’s lap, easing into penetration.

Take it to the next level with… The receiving partner can indulge in a little extra external stimulation with the help of a clitoral vibe or stroker, depending on what they’ve got going on down there. The dual sensations can lead to an incredible blended climax for both penis and vulva owners. If you don’t have a wall to lean back on and want to keep your hands free to explore, then a sex wedge could come in handy to help prop the penetrating partner up.

How: The giving partner lies on their back with their legs spread. The receiving partner lies on their side facing the opposite direction in a similar position to their boo with their legs spread. The receiving partner gently eases themselves down towards the strap-on ready for penetration.

Take it to the next level with… a double-ended dildo so both partners can enjoy the sensations of penetration while also stimulating those external erogenous zones. You can also apply a small amount of an orgasm balm, like Lovehoney Bliss Orgasm Balm, to add a pleasurable tingle to those sensitive areas.

How: The receiving partner lies on their back with their legs raised in the air and spread open. The penetrating partner kneels with their knees positioned on either side of the receiving partner’s hips ready to enter. From here the penetrating partner can also help to support the receiving partner’s raised legs by holding their ankles.

Take it to the next level with… a finger vibrator, like the Lovehoney Ignite 20 Function Finger Vibrator. Either partner can don this little vibe and use it to tease and stroke all those sensitive spots like the nipples, clitoris, balls or perineum. If the receiving partner is struggling to keep their legs apart while having a naughty, you can use a leg spreader bar to keep them wide open.

How: the receiving partner positions themselves in a squat position on the edge of the bed. From here they can lean forward slightly and place their hands on the bed for added stability and support. The penetrating partner positions themselves behind the receiving partner and enters them, holding onto their waist to help control the pace and depth of penetration.

Take it to the next level with… a bit of reach-around stimulation. This position leaves the receiving partner’s bits open for action, so take advantage of this with a vibrating masturbator for penis owners or a massage wand vibe for people with clitorises. The combination of external stimulation and internal sensations is ripe for a thrilling explosion.

How: The penetrating partner reclines back on a narrow, sturdy surface, like the arm of a couch. With their back to them, the receiving partner straddles the penetrating partner with their feet planted firmly on the floor. From here, the receiving partner has the ability to take the lead and set the pace by gyrating, bouncing or moving backward, forward or side to side as much or as little as they like.

Take it to the next level with… some fetish gear like a feather tickler or blindfold to keep the dom/sub scenario going. You could even throw in some wrist restraints or a pair of nipple clamps for good measure. The possibilities are endless.

How: The receiving partner kneels on all fours with their legs apart slightly while the penetrating partner positions themselves behind ready to enter. From here, the penetrating partner can lean over the receiving partner and wrap their arms around their waist to access their external sweet spots.

Take it to the next level with… A bullet vibrator is perfect for teasing and tracing around the erogenous zones. If your beloved is particularly into nipple play, you could even throw in a pair of nipple suckers to take their sensitivity sky high.

How: The receiving partner positions themselves on all fours while the penetrating partner crouches above and enters them from behind. From here, the penetrating partner can grab onto the receiving partner’s waist to better control the depth of the action.

Take it to the next level with… a wonderfully fulfilling butt plug. Whether you opt for a vibrating butt plug or a plug of the non-vibrational variety, throwing a butt plug into the mix for either the penetrating or receiving partner can add a whole new set of sensations to the pegging action.

How: the receiving partner lies on their back and draws their legs up to their chest with their knees bent. The penetrating partner positions themselves on the back of the receiving partner’s thighs with their legs in a kneeling straddle position and enters the receiving partner. The penetrating partner can hold onto their playmate’s knees for a little extra support.

Take it to the next level with… a clitoral suction vibe to tickle and tantalise your flame’s hot spots. Whether you’re using it on the tip of a todger, their love buttons or on a pretty pistachio as intended, a clitoral suction vibe can help to mimic the sensations of oral without adding a third into the mix. Use with a generous helping of your fave water-based lube to really imitate that wet and warm.

How: both partners lie on their sides and assume a spooning position. From here, the penetrating partner can enter from behind and both partners can control the motions while they bump beautifuls.

Take it to the next level with… a good old-fashioned dildo. Vulva owners can explore the sensations of double penetration courtesy of the dildo-strap-on combo. For people with penises, you might enjoy penetrating a pocket pussy while getting penetrated yourself.